Attachment may be less like a fixed identity than a familiar job description: the work you rush to do when closeness feels at risk. Lasting change can begin when you notice that job, decline it briefly, and choose a more direct response.

Relationships
The Role You Take When Love Feels Uncertain
Attachment may be less like a fixed identity than a familiar job description: the work you rush to do when closeness feels at risk. Lasting change can begin when you notice that job, decline it briefly, and choose a more direct response.
