Romantic pursuit can feel generous while still making a woman into the audience for someone else’s plan. The useful question is not only how much effort a date makes, but whether that effort changes in response to who she is, what she has said, and what her life actually requires.

Women
Effort Is Not the Same as Consideration
Romantic pursuit can feel generous while still making a woman into the audience for someone else’s plan. The useful question is not only how much effort a date makes, but whether that effort changes in response to who she is, what she has said, and what her life actually requires.
